Happy new year, my dears. You might remember me writing about my beloved and hard-won Rules for who and how I want to be in the world. But I’ve been feeling very overwhelmed by uncertainty for awhile now. I finally had to realize, and admit to myself, that what brought me this far is not […]
Yay holidays mean it’s time for another themed party at work! The whole staff asked me to be in charge of decorations for our celebration to make it fun and festive for everyone… on the usual shoestring budget. Result: “New Leaf” theme, in honor of having a big year ahead with several new team members […]
Yoga practice has changed as I’m aging. No longer “advancing,” just reclaiming the same flexibility over and over again. Which might seem frustrating. Except: I also wash the same dishes and clothes over and over so I won’t get sick from trying to keep using them. I brush the same teeth over and over. I […]
Oh hi, sorry I’m breezing into work an hour late, but I had to take a lil time to throw out at least $75 of perishable food from my fridge since the power was out for more than 8 hours last night. Yeah no worries, my pay doesn’t get docked, I don’t get fired, I’ll […]
When I was about 7, I announced at the dinner table that I was old enough to stay up late and tell dirty jokes with the family. Turns out, I wanted to tell a racist joke. And turns out, that says a lot about how we can look at racism in ourselves.
In honor of Veterans Day, I’d like to introduce you to my Papa and Nana, my mother’s parents, on their wedding day in the middle of WWII. Long after the war, Papa became a psychiatrist and his practice included supporting transgender clients with their transitions. This would have been in the 1980s and early 90s, […]
Quarterly retreat for my team yesterday on Nov. 6, 2018, and how could I have a theme of anything but #ElectionDay? Sorry the pic doesn’t capture scent of crescent roll wrapped hot dogs in the toaster oven. Sugar rush from red white and blue cupcakes powered us through important 2019 planning. And yeah, there was definitely […]
Once upon a time, someone tried to misuse Facebook to start a hate movement against LGBTQ people and the President stood firm in his values and saved the day. No, of course I don’t mean this U.S. President in 2018, don’t be silly. I’m talking about way back in 1989 when the Facebook was an […]
When you murder my people for being like me, you make me remember who else I am like. I am like the refugees walking thousands of miles with their children to seek asylum, as my kin did in the Holocaust. I am like my family members and friends and strangers who are trans, whose safety […]
This morning, someone tried to take my white privilege away from me, and it was scary. When I feel attacked because I’m Jewish, what can that teach me about how safe I usually feel because I’m white?