How. How!? How could I have mostly forgotten the time that I was with a carload of teen boys in upstate NY and we got pulled over and the driver got arrested for reckless driving and put in cuffs in the back of the cop car and we were all “asked” to follow them back […]
Our country ’tis of thee… that we tell a complicated tale this Memorial Day. Here are my Papa and Nana on their wedding day, Feb. 27th 1943. Technically, the “right” day to honor Papa’s service would be Veterans Day, since he trained as a pilot but never saw combat and lived to a happy old […]
Reflecting on LAPD clearing the Echo Park encampment of people living in tents: This strikes me as a perfect example of the idea that the function of a system is *what it does.* It’s not that our systems are broken. That would imply we can just fix up what we’ve got, in specific instances where […]
Yesterday, March 26, was #StopAsianHate Day. To my White friends in particular, I offer two things I’m reflecting on: 1/ This article in which, among other Asian-American voices, my trusted college friend Sumalee Montano shared her experience: “In her Los Angeles neighborhood a few weeks ago, an unmasked woman breathed in Montano’s face, then leaned […]
Today I want to give my time and care to honor the dead, and the living. I have an offering for each. Whether you read this for learning, or for the affirmation of feeling seen, here’s my offering: For the dead: Say their names I join in mourning with the families and communities of the […]
I’ve got a weekend to-do list as long as my arm but I’ve also got something to say about the slow death-by-a-thousand-cuts of so many aspects of the minimum wage, unemployment, and direct aid pieces of the American Rescue Plan in Congress and I’m just gonna make time for it, hope you will too, here […]
2 days ago, I made an impulse turn from my usual path and found myself on a posh Newport Beach street that I’ve never biked before. The homes are mostly walled off, except the ones that are in the process of being torn down and rebuilt even swankier. So I only saw a few local […]
Wanna do something nice for me on my birthday this MLK weekend? Give me one minute of your time to really read Dr. King’s quote about “white moderates” below. Then give me just one more minute where you reflect on today’s voices calling for supposed “unity” — yes, including President-Elect Biden. Is Dr. King’s daughter, […]
Season 1 recap: Back before the election, you may recall I posted asking for guidance on whether I had a duty to respond to my very elderly neighbor’s habit of parading around wearing a MAGA hat. Y’all were wise and helpful in advising me not to waste time on a single individual with whom I […]
Reflecting on how this week’s nearly unrestrained White supremacist insurrection is landing differently, more heavily and yet more familiarly on my friends and colleagues of color, and a memory flashes back to me: I’m in the back seat of the wood-paneled station wagon with my sister, maybe 10 years old. My father, Nurn, pulls the […]